Do older adults need to practice safe sex?
DEAR DOCTOR K: I'm a single, postmenopausal woman in my 50s. Do I still need to worry about "safe" sex? DEAR READER: I'm surprised by how often my patients ask me the same question. "Safe" sex means...
View ArticleCan lifestyle changes help with erectile dysfunction?
DEAR DOCTOR K: I'm a man in my mid-60s. Lately I've been unable to perform sexually. Are there non-drug strategies I can try before turning to medication? DEAR READER: Even if you'd prefer to handle...
View ArticleCan I do anything about painful sex after menopause?
DEAR DOCTOR K: Ever since I went through menopause, sex has become painful. My doctor says this is because of vaginal atrophy. Is there anything I can do? DEAR READER: Pain that occurs before, during...
View ArticleQuestions and answers about low testosterone
The following Q&A is excerpted from “Testosterone for Life,” written by my colleague Abraham Morgentaler, M.D., and published by Harvard Medical School. For more on low testosterone, read my column...
View ArticleWhich age-related sexual changes in men are normal?
DEAR DOCTOR K: I'm a man in my 70s. I still enjoy sex, but it's different than when I was younger. What changes are normal? DEAR READER: As a man in the last half of his life, I would like to be able...
View ArticleI’m a woman in my 50s with a diminishing sex drive — what could be the cause?
DEAR DOCTOR K: I'm a woman in my 50s. I've always had a healthy sex drive, but lately it's gone bye-bye. What could be wrong? DEAR READER: There aren't a lot of people with a take-it-or-leave-it...
View ArticleWhat are the different options of penile implants?
DEAR DOCTOR K: Can you discuss penile implants? I haven't had success with other treatments for erectile dysfunction. DEAR READER: Medications, injectable drugs and devices such as vacuum pumps can...
View ArticleI’m a woman in my mid-50s — what could cause my decline in sexual arousal?
DEAR DOCTOR K: I'm a woman in my mid-50s. Lately I haven't been able to become sexually aroused. What could be wrong? DEAR READER: Sex is complicated. You probably already know that. Sexual desire...
View ArticleWhen should I talk to my child about sex?
DEAR DOCTOR K: When should I start talking to my child about sex? And what topics should I discuss? DEAR READER: Many parents are uncomfortable talking about sex with their kids, but they know the day...
View ArticleWhat is cervicitis and how do you get it?
DEAR DOCTOR K: My doctor diagnosed me with cervicitis. What is this? And how did I get it? DEAR READER: Cervicitis is an inflammation and irritation of the cervix, the doughnut-shaped opening to the...
View ArticleRestore sex drive by changing dose or kind of depression medication.
DEAR DOCTOR K: Last year I started taking an SSRI for depression. It has done wonders for my mood -- but it has really dampened my sex drive. Any suggestions? DEAR READER: Since depression is so...
View ArticleWhat is the most effective way to treat premature ejaculation?
DEAR DOCTOR K: I've been experiencing premature ejaculation. What is the most effective way to treat this? DEAR READER: Premature ejaculation (PE) occurs when a man reaches orgasm and ejaculates too...
View ArticleWhat can I do to make sex painless and pleasurable again?
DEAR DOCTOR K: I'm a man, and sex is often painful. Why? What can I do to make sex painless and pleasurable again? DEAR READER: If you go by what you see on TV, the only thing standing between you and...
View ArticleCan erectile dysfunction be caused by vascular disease?
DEAR DOCTOR K: My doctor says my erectile dysfunction is most likely caused by vascular disease. Can you explain the connection? DEAR READER: Erectile dysfunction (ED) -- trouble attaining and...
View ArticleDoes the new female libido drug really work?
DEAR DOCTOR K: I am a woman in my 30s. I love my husband, but I am just not interested in sex. Will the new female libido drug help? DEAR READER: You're referring to flibanserin (Addyi). This is the...
View ArticleHow can I prevent recurrent UTIs?
DEAR DOCTOR K: I'm in my 30s and fairly healthy. However, I keep getting urinary tract infections. My husband and I want to know what I can do to prevent them. DEAR READER: Many women know well the...
View ArticleWhat can I do about vaginal pain during intercourse?
DEAR DOCTOR K: I'm in my late 50s. Lately, I have vaginal pain every time my husband and I have intercourse. I mentioned this to some friends, and it turns out a few of them also experienced vaginal...
View ArticleWhat’s considered normal aging when it comes to sex?
DEAR DOCTOR K: My wife and I are in our 70s. Sex is not what it once was. Is there anything "natural" I can do to improve sex? I don't want to take pills. What's normal aging when it comes to sex? DEAR...
View ArticleCan you give me some advice on how to talk to my teen about sex?
DEAR DOCTOR K: I'm the parent of a teenage girl. I know it's time to talk to her about sex, and I'd appreciate any advice. DEAR READER: Many parents feel anxious or uncomfortable talking with their...
View ArticleWhy have I suddenly lost my sexual desire?
DEAR DOCTOR K: I'm a woman in my mid-50s. Lately I haven't been able to become sexually aroused. What could be wrong? DEAR READER: Sex is complicated, but you probably already know that. Sexual desire...
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